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How do you fight the push and pull (manipulation) tactic if you want to win him?

Last Updated: 18.06.2025 03:38

How do you fight the push and pull (manipulation) tactic if you want to win him?

When someone spread ugly insulting, made up and fabricated testimonies, stories , accusations , CGI video , or private matters , morphed photos recording , voice etc about me.

Injured

Biting Your Pen

How do I develop the patience to read books?

Slouching At The Computer

Intimidated

Throw that chocolate wrapper in the dust bin, do not litter.

Hello,hope y'all doin good, i came to Quora to share my strange story , a very weird one , a story when luck smiled at me ,maybe u will enjoy it , let's begin,have fun... A year ago ,I was a real porn addicted(btw I was 18) ,but never had sex before, I don't have a gf I didn't try to find one even ,always thinking to go to find a sex worker but then I just don't , everyday watching different bodies getting fucked and everyday enjoying. One day, I was watching porn, a big ass lady with big boobs ,just after seeing her the image of my female cousin poped in my mind, (let's introduce her : she's 35 years old , very big ass , nice boobs ,not very big but nice,always wearing tight clothes , she's divorced ) and I thought of me fucking her ,I never had sexual desires for her but now I do days went by and when I met her I was so horny ,I couldn't stay with the family cz my penis was clearly erected , I realized this is my first time I get horny for one of my family ,it not illegal in my country.well to make a long story short( if u want details just text me I will tell u 😊),I decided to give her signs that I want to fuck her,finally I decided to have sex and with my cousin , I thought it is the best beggining for me, i started touching her when I came across her in a narrow place , make her feel my hard cock when we hug , I thought it will hard and I will be ashamed but no , I felt nothing and she said nothing , probably she thought it was by mistake,anyways, I decided then to talk with her about sex, waited for her to be alone in a room and talk with her, I confessed everything about me watching porn and addicted..etc,she said it's normal and u are growing up and u must have sex,well at that time I was like whaaat????? Well I didn't control myself and asked her for sex ( horny like I Ve never been before) she said that she will think Abt it ,2 weeka went by then she called me ,telling that she reserved a room in a hotel and we meet tonight ,we met,and bruuhh, sex is great , I mean, I had to find a pirstitue ,what I was waiting for to have such a feeling ????, I will never forget that night, I started kissing her she was kissing hard ,she misses sex so bad , she sucked my dick and swallowed my semen ,I felt I'm in a dream , then when fucked ,her ass was very big and the anus was open ,didn't struggle to get my hard cock inside it , she was obviously missing sex , she was shouting ,fuck me yh fuck me , I go fast after every word until I cum , we did that 3 times , then we went to her pussy , using condoms I fucked her so hard the moans were higher , everything was perfect ,in the end I asked her to lick her body , licked pussy ,ass, boobs,then she sucked my cock until we sleeped ,all I know that she was dirty ,well before even having sex with her I knew she is an open minded woman , and a woman that looks that she donesnt know anything , but she knows everything, but never expected having sex with her ,well she was horny and that helped...but no one of us regretted that sex ever.. We still have sex from time to time ,and I started having sex with sex workers , joining threesomes..etc If u want pics of her text me.

Belching

Always say thank you and write a thank you note.

Procrastinating

Why are white women not interested in dating Asian men? Are they not attractive to you at all?

Picking Fights

Coming to close to my face .

Chewing Gum

What is the most memorable thing that happened in your college days?

While coming in and going out, leave the door gently, don't bang.

They come with dogs , to desrespect me with a rude word or spit at me or close and loud around me , or humiliate or swears or outer intimidating, threats , aggressive body language moves , insults , or at public places , keep me waiting or touch me from behind or front or side or come to my face to provoke me for an argument or fight or take an inderect picture with me without my permission or come to talk to me to make someone else think we are framing someone or slandering someone.

Poeple who push your bottons and provoke you to become angry are sick . They want to slowly kill you from an anger stroke , high blood pressure , jail , fights ,hospitals , isolation , and hate of others , because you are angry.They don't go after the real abusive predators, who they seem to not only kill freedom of speech and critics of the victim of human rights abuses , but also get an endorphin rush/self-satisfaction/control in playing with their prey. It's just who they are and what they do. In my case it's the Barzani's family and Canadian intelligent agency doing provocations to me for over 12 years .

Why does Filipino culture dictate that parents should be treated as gods?

When entrusted with a secret, keep it.

Respect your teachers….who always force us to the next level.

According to Google:

If gays can get married, why can't I marry my dog or a cheeseburger?

Skipping The Gym

In my case when Iam nice , they are rude , when I am.polite. When I clean and shower or have a little bit of money , they don't look at me or come around me . When I stink and look dirty and slowly clumsy , they send the most beautiful girls half naked to my way . She smiles and Show you her sexy staffs. But , you stink . The psychopaths go on more as when you say hello , they ignore you. When you ignore them , they say hello to you. When you are nice to them , They're mean to you. When you are mean to them, they are nice to you. When you are happy , they become angry with you. When you are angry , they joke with you ..They must always keep you on edge never let you have peace.

Humiliated

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Eating Candy

Always try not to talk to someone wearing headphones or earphones in public.

Scratching An Itch

The world of the Harry Potter series is usually considered bad worldbuilding. What are some examples of actually good worldbuilding in the books/movies?

Do not move hands while speaking.

Here you go, here is the list of self defense tools .

If someone cuts off my basic needs .

How do scientists behave?

Exaggerating

While talking, do not sound too loud or too low.

Give credit.

What do you say after "Hi" when chatting?

Finishing People’s Sentences

If you see your friend trying to talk to a girl/guy, leave them alone. Asking them about it later, and having them go into detail about that interaction is not required, but highly recommended.

Staying Up Late

I live in Massachusetts. Are there any resources here for people that are being harassed by voice to skull, etc.?

Play with passion or don’t play at all.

Eating Past 8 P.M

Using Slang

How do I confess to my crush who had a traumatic past with his previous partner without losing the friendship?

Monopolizing A Conversation

The Ultimately , they want to see you rape , kill ,jump at poeple, run after whores , punch or kill yourself or grow beard and put your head down and go to mosque or church. It's human trafficking business. If you become sick from peace , privacy , and mind games exhausted , from there doctors and police ambulance would take you over . They look you up at mental health services hospital. They call you dangerous to the public. To leave someone alone , and respect thier rights means you need to stop doing all of these subtle and obvious violations of human rights against poeple like me .

Do not clean your ear with pen or pencil. It too feels yuk.

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When someone cut me off my good friend, poeple lovers etc for no good reason.

When a woman accuse me of being obsesed with her and love her , and Iam not.

Trolling Comments

Are judges being lenient on hard criminals?

Don’t try to impose your opinions on others. If you think the guy’s opinion is problematic, talk/debate formally.

While talking to a colleague in office, don't try to look into his computer screen and don't try to read his mails etc. It's for him not for you.:). Respect people's privacy.

Biting Fingernails

What smell will you never forget?

Insulted

Also , Ontario housing of Canada refused to give me housing as a person who smoke weed and dirty. The Barzani's family and Canadian Government has a hand in it . If I call police , like I have done it before calling police of Kitchener. Officer hunter was investigating my complain about espionage and the rooming house guys . He told me that I have been hallucinated because I smoke weed . Nobody spy on me . He advised me to go to doctor take my medication and sleep. He said that is the only you can deal with hallucinations paranoia and feel mental stable without accusing poeple of spying on you. Poeple are busy.

Leaving The Fridge Open

To lie and deceive someone. To play with the emotions of someone. To take their belongings and not bring back . To boss then around. To dig into their private life. To embarrass them in any possible way.

Snubbed

Licking Your Lips

Plotted against me .

If you see a guy peeing into a urinal, and there are open urinals all around him, don’t use the urinal right next to him.

Do not make sound while sipping tea or soup or while eating.

Encourage the culture of gangsters and wars by using coward, pussy , dishonorable , words and Labels mong men to provoke.

Open the car door for your passenger.

Video Games

Don't hurt your parents.

Being A Know-It-All

If someone expect something from me and they are not supposed to. I hate it .

One-Upping

When I am sleeping and sick or very tired or need sleep to function.

Drinking From The Carton

Lots of poeple provoke me to shout and disrespect in the public. They desrespect me emotionally. Or financially and phisically. Sometimes severely in a big and serious dangerous way and sometimes in a small harmful ways , like spiitin on me or swearing or coming around me threatening and leave , or sexually desrespect me through body language b, words , etc or humiliate me infront of women and friends. At the end someone must do something bad like this to provoke me into a bad reaction and response. But fairly. I desrespect just as they do . But , don't desrespect fairly. They hurt me phiscally too.

Disrespected

Don't give bad looks to poeple if you have no good reason.

One more time I went to Kitchener police station to report the rooming house guys and thier harrsaments especially the Roman Prist. Again they told me Iam sick and I need to take medication. Police told me that I have the right to self defense if anyone bother me or come on my way or harrsaments. He was wondering why I don't defend myself and argue with poeple over my rights while I write about law and violation of my rights.

Don't shake hands with wet hands.

Nibbling While Cooking

When you are offered something for eating while sharing, take just a little.

Forgetting To Shave

Use polite words.

Snacking

Invisible

Name Dropping

This is kouhan Fatah speaking about things and type of poeple who make me angry. Don't forget it . It's important. If you take it as a joke, you are responsible for my anger .

What are some proper manners for everyday life?

Popping Zits

Don't listen when I clearly and loudly say " stop the desrespect and back off.

Excessive Throat Clearing

Ridiculed

Rejected

Do not suddenly speak in between,when two people are talking.

Being Overly Critical

Cracking Your Knuckles

They hit your weak points deliberately to get a reaction out of you, either good or bad. That is their intent when they start provoking you or prodding you to make you angry on purpose, and they soak it in and feel a smidgen of satisfaction and joy from getting you all worked up for no reason.They photo and video you at that moment and use it as an evidence to call you sick and dangerous. They use it as a justification to spy on you as a dangerous person. And your rights are violated on daily basis under such bad excuses.They never want you to have peace. Until you run or end up in the hospital , jail., courts.

Eating Gluten

Burned

Put down

Invasion of privacy and space.

Do not use other person's towel, comb, kerchief etc.

Do not drink the water directly from bottle ( touching mouth), if it is others.

Don’t let a wishbone grow where a backbone should be.

Do not hang the phone suddenly after speaking, close it with a bye or thank you.

Day Dreaming

Talking In Class

Don't make loud noises around poeple if you don't have a good reason like work and duties.

Eavesdropping

Blocking my vision.

Damaging my good work record.

Spread positivity

Ignored

Chewing With Mouth Open

Don't stand infront of someone close to their face while they are sitting.

Arranging Instead of Cleaning

All Work And No Play

Rambling

Don't touch others while speaking.

When shaking hands, grip firmly and look the person in the eye.

Emotional Eating

Over Medicating

If the teacher forgets to check for homework and your friend forgot to do it, you do not, under any circumstances, ask “Wasn’t there homework due today?”

Speaking With Your Mouth Full

Leaving The Heat On When You Go Out

If someone cut off my sources of legit fun , life interests , and health cure .

Freeloading

Not Moisturizing

Slighted

Twitter

Grinding Your Teeth

Waiting you your turn in line and not pushing in.

Persecuted

Bushwhacked

Tortured

Not texting while you are talking to someone.

Don't desrespect me. If you don't know , now you know. There are many things and type of people who can get into someone's nerves and push them to become very angry to the point where they shout , break staffs , or beat or even kill the person or people who are hurting his / her nerves on and on . But there is a difference between becoming angry for a good reason and being angry for a bad reason.

Share food.

While using a public toilet, leave the toilet dry and clean.

Again , this another way to encourage poeple to argue and encourage fights between me and poeple rather than peace justice and avoidance of problems and bad poeple. The problem is Iam not getting desrespected by more than one person . And it's not only once in a month or a year. It's every 2 to 3 days . It happens systematically with espionage and teach downs of my movements. I am sending my privacy right violations and reporting it to RCMP and police of Canada . If they continue calling me sick and hallucinated. And if they ignore investigating it . And if it happens more , I would have a solid justification to continue writing , talking and the Barzani's family , Kurds , police and Canada whenever I get desrespected.

Restrict my freedoms.

Do not appreciate my hard work and help.

Skipping Breakfast

There are many abusive people that use different psychological techniques abusive and none abusive techniques to get into your nerves and make you angry and even push you to commit crimes . Asking too many stupid questions to someone intelligent. Repeating the same topics and conversation . unwanted Touching. Staring at someone for long time. Cutting you off your sources of happiness or while you talk to someone can really make you go nuts. Invasion of your space for example when someone comes too close to you unexpectedly, or stands in the doorway , when you are in hurry and need to go through, you feel the beginnings of violent panic.

Talking to me loudly.

When someone makes a dirty mess like in the rooming house guys, in the washrooms , kitchen etc and accuse me of being dirty.

Not being sexist or racist.

Using Your Maiden Name

Always hold the door open for others.

Popping Gum

What are some bad habits we all have?

Never shake a man’s hand sitting down. It's rude.

Squashed

Furthermore , as a part of sucide program they use , For example , I suffer . I panhandle. I live in dirty places . Iam injured. Nobody compensated me. I nice music and post it online , the same haters criminals who have hurt me and covered up , paying rooming house guys addicts to desrespect me and cut off my internet. They continue slamming the doors to distract me mixing music or sleeping. They spy on me through my electronics and wireless camiras inside my room and they coordinator thier walking on my way on the halls to washrooms as soon as I get out . It has happened like this more than 20 times . It's hate . It's mind control. It's nerve racking.

Afflicted

Be like a duck. Remain calm on the surface and paddle like crazy underneath.

Stand up to bullies. Protect those bullied.

Wronged

Respect other people’s property. Return borrowed pencils, don’t smudge their phone if you use it, and pay back loans from your friends.

Damaged

Sleeping-in

When you are given someone's mobile for speaking, clean/ rub it with your palm before putting it on to your ears and after you are finished speaking, repeat the same and return it back.

Dejected

Speeding

Hoarding

D.on't pull others down. Lift them up.

Abused

According to Google that “ Consideration means having empathy for another person and conducting yourself through thoughtful behaviour when interacting with someone else and looking at them in a clean heart way , without having or developing bad hidden motives towards them while you are talking or looking at them, at least nuetural heart if not humane and polite heart.

Kissing & Telling

Not Doing Your Homework

Eating Too Fast / Not Chewing

Dragging me into fights arguments.

When you make a phonecall to someone,you tell your name, the name of person you want to speak to and the reason you have called up. Don't ask others name.

Talking To Yourself

Fidgeting

In a restaurant, when you want to pull the chair from another person's table, ask for his permission.

Never turn down a breath mint.

Always speak the truth.

Conning me , ripping me off .

Talking During Movies

When you let your guards down, open up your trust towards them, allow your boundaries to become relaxed . You want to have sex , they call you slut or a dirty stud . Or they sex the girl and vice versa , take advantage of you and leave. Or they shut you off emotionally By being rude , hard to talk to . When you leave them alone , they make noise , charming , staffs , switching off suddenly, and being too Sweet or again too busy for you.

Playing with my mind and emotions. Or seducing me . Stabbing me from the back .

Saying “Yes” To Everything

When I am innocent doing something good and someone Cutts me off won't let me continue.

Repeating Yourself

Pocari Sweat From Japan (seriously, if you drink this for 2 or 3 days your body will crave it instead of water)

If you need music on the beach, you’re missing the point.

Subject: provocations and subtle human rights violations.

Eating White Sugar

Skipping Meals

Giving Away “Tells” In Poker

Don't take for granted ,the sharing of food with intimate friends in the same plate. They may not like it.

While shaking hands, press a little,shake, hold for two seconds and then leave.

Loitering

If you are entering someone room/ cabin, knock before entering and seek permission.

Pained

Online Surfing In Class

Spying on my private conversations.

Annihilated

Binge Watching Netflix

If you are coughing and you have to clean your throat, go to the toilet and do it.

When someone accuse me of being a gay or a spy and I am not.

Cheek Biting

Drinking Soda/Pop

Playing Kingdom Rush

Annoying People On Purpose

Try to mind your own business unless somethings affects you directly.

Apologize , if it's your mistake. Yes, you should do it.

Alcohol (if you think you may be an alcoholic, please get professional help)

Rebuffed

Make your bed.

When someone spy on me for no good reason.

Forcing me to love or be loyal to someone or some groups.

Someone hurt me and Don't admit mistakes.

Negative Self Talk / Self Criticism

Pencil Chewing

Not letting the door slam in anyone's face when you enter or exit a building.

The secretive plan of provoking you to become angry starts by first finding your weak points , spying on you , daily , and sending or setting up their guys on your ways or at places you go . Spying is done by first they bug your communication, watch your moves , and listen to what you say and realize your points of weakness and what bothers you. They then develop a dialogue to irritate those point. Then they double down on the attack and repeat those points until they get a reaction. Then they refine the points to get bigger reactions. Once the reaction gets to be huge - expect a punch in the nose.

Manner means be polite, thankful when helped , respected and to be thoughtful about the needs of others too when you see them need something and you can help them . You can at least avoid hurting them or adding more salt to thier injuries. It means To act and speak humbly, thoughtfully and politely at gatherings. It's opposite to be rude , arrogant ruthless , ignorant and inconsiderate.

Not Holding Eye Contact

Spending Too Much Time Online

When Iam eating and someone talk or show dirty disgusting staffs , or making puking , irritating noises , ugly disgusting words , images , moves , body language etc .

Licking Your Fingers

You have manners and considerations that go hand in hand to behave excellent mostly in your daily life especially when interacting with people.

Calling me dump , stupid and restarted. Calling me rapist , Homosexual , woman hater , family destroyer , dangerous really makes me angry. Discrimination in all its kind. Harmful jealousy. Blackmail. Bully business. Weaponizing sex and work respect , peace etc .

Hold the umbrella and offer your arm.

Return things within time.

Reddit

Talking About Your Sister Behind Her Back

Never be afraid to ask out the best looking girl in the room.

Write down your dreams.

Skin Picking

Not Protecting Yourself From The Sun

Offended

Taking responsibility for actions.

Leaving The Toilet Seat Up

It's violation. It's espionage. It's not coincidence. It's violation of human rights. In fact Espionage doesn't bother me ( you can't stop it by the way . How ? ) when someone is only spying at me to look at my pines or the way I sleep or sex . Because I don't do nothing illgal in my room. And I don't have hidden crimes from the past . But , what bothers me about espionage is the coordinating of the sophisticated spy with his/her team to come on my way walking or biking or by car , screeching , intimidating or sending them waiting around corners in the public , lurke to hit me with the door of a store I go to or the place I walk by or when if Iam walking wrong side at light or in the streets. They send poeple on my who look like poeple I know from Iraq . It makes me wonder and think if that's him/her or not . It distract my mind from focusing on my walking and traffic rules momentarily.

You may eat once everyone is seated at the table and the cook has lifted his/her fork off of the napkin.

Interrupting Someone

Telling Secrets

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Someone who repeat the same mistakes against me .

Fiddling With Your Hair

Skipping Work

Biting Your Disgusting Toe Nails

If a person who is extremely stupid , dangerous , sick , no manner , no respect , crminalistic , potentially or not , or lazy has an impact on my life. Might be some of his activities that he or she hurt or procrastinates delays my life , my rights , my important task , it will also make me angry.

Cheating on me . Framing me . Making up stories on my behalf. Selling me . All these are deadly triggers of anger in me .Discrediting my writings about violation of human rights against me .

Why do we feel hurt emotionally by words and signals or action of others?

Ask if you can help.

Always protect your siblings (and teammates).

Always offer to pay, and be ready to pay.

Excessive Salt

Defeated

Conditioning love sex relationships to aggressive behaviour or money or gun using.

And finally , people also become angry when No one listen to you . Everyone try to make you come off as lair even when you speak the truth. They dominant your conversation. They make loud noise while you are sitting at a place eating or drinking. Loud noise around where you live to deny you sleep.Being treated unfairly , not having money , work , a good clean place for living or having Pain , injuries , bad memories , sickness can also make someone angry.

Eating When You Are Bored

Eating Meat

Watching Reality Television

Not Showering

Bragging

You marry the girl, you marry her family.

Bullying People

When someone threat me when I am innocent.

Don't compare yourself to others also don't compare others to anyone.”””…

When someone humiliate and desrespect me in the public or inside for no good reason.

Putting Dishes In Sink And Not Washing Them

Using Your Phone In Bed

A sport coat is worth a thousand words.

Leaving Your Wallet / Keys In Random Places

Try to stand when greeting.

Drinking Tea

Tormented

Blocking my way .

Brutalized

Overeating

Treat your subordinates , or people under low working class with due respect. Don't ill treat them just because you are in the top of the ladder. It will not take more time for life's wheel to turn the other way around.

Victimized

Not interrupting people when they are talking.

Using Devices At Night

Carry two handkerchiefs. The one in your back pocket is for you. The one in your breast pocket is for her.

Laughed at

Different people become angry for different reasons. Those who become angry for good reasons are fighting human rights abuse , but those who become angry for bad reasons are stupid and should not become angry or else they should be put medication or anger management classes and even jail and probation if they become violent and dangerous towards others .

Kouhan Fatah

Say sorry whenever necessary.

Emotional Shopping

Whining

While calling the lift, press only once .Have a little patience the lift would come.

Diminished

Taking off your sunglasses when people are talking to you so that they can see your eyes.

P.S: Pavlok will never judge you. Some habits are objectively bad, e.g., smoking kills you. Other habits like “sleeping in” depend on context, like if it’s making you late for work. And still other habits aren’t really either good or bad, it’s just personal preference. Also, if you have a condition that puts you or anyone at risk of serious harm you must see a medical professional immediately and you can ask your doctor if Pavlok is right for you.

Obsessively Checking iPhone/iPad

Heart-broken

Chewing On Your Hair

Being Late

Blamed

Lying

Gossiping

Horking

Punched

Be confident and humble at the same time.

When someone take the credit of my hard work , music , writing , art, etc and call me the one who's the thief. Outrageous.

In a negotiation, never make the first offer.

Drinking Energy Drinks

Gaming In Class

Bleeding

Betrayed

Agonized

Eating Chocolate

Deflated

Don’t look in your phone when someone is speaking to you.

Never ever open a close colleague's bag ( females) without the permission.

Opening Countless Tabs

Hypocrisy of poeple.

Forgotten

Be big enough to recognize when you are wrong, and humble enough to say you are sorry.

If you see a guy peeing into a urinal, and there are open urinals all around him, don’t use the urinal right next to him.

Don't talk back.

When someone come to visit me or knock on my door or bang my door or shout behind my door , or disturb me , for no good reason , I really become angry.

Chewing Tobacco

Take advantage of me .

Someone Disagree to reason, logic and rationality when I convince and Iam right.

Celling bangs and squeaky floors.

Watching Seinfeld Reruns

Humming To Yourself

To deny someone from having fun and to play in between him/ her and his family , friends and lovers and break them apart. To disrespect people. To withhold sex , or other sweet and important things from someone to get them become angry.Screaming children. Too many incoming phone calls and texts at once. Constant Loud noises. The neighbour’s noise and barking dogs.

Skipping Class

Assaulted

Cheated

Sticking bad and negative adjectives and names on me while I am not.

Quora

Losing Your Temper

Fiddling With Keys

Invalidated

Hacking my Facebook account.

Shoplifting

Eating Dairy

Ask your mom to play. She won’t let you win.

Sitting Too Close To The T.V

Deprived

Usually snobbish are inconsiderate . Because they consider themselves to be above most people and need to be catered to. I hope that isn’t so, but you will not win friends and influence people if you proceed with your stated response.

Don't be offended by criticism. Take it seriously, not personally.

Complaining

m&m’s

Not staring at strangers in public.

Always chew with your mouth closed.

Jilted

When a woman accuse me of stalking her or talking bad about her , and I don't.

Buzz-friggin’-feed

If you are in advanced classes, tell your friends which ones are actually worth taking. Do not ever try to academically sabotage your friends.

Thank a veteran. Then make it up to him.

Not Brushing Your Teeth

Neglected

Letting Fear Stop You From Trying Something New

When someone accuse me of being sick when I am not.

If you have borrowed pen etc. from someone in office, return it before you are asked for it.

Do not spit or throw garbage on the road or in public.

When Iam in the middle of doing a very important work.

Eat lunch with the new kid.

Thumb Sucking

Never be too busy for a friendly visit or much needed ear.

Flaking Out

Spitting

When someone bother me for no good reason.

Poor Hygiene

Pinching Pennies

Do not dig your nose with your finger for cleaning , in the public.

When there is a queue, wait for your chance, don't barge.

Dishonest and unfair treatment.lies that causes big harms emotionally and physically or financially.

What do people frequently do in public that get on your nerves? What makes me angry?

Screwed

Being Unfriendly

Biting Your Lips

Checking Your Hair / Eyebrows / Makeup / Nails

Take your hat off when you enter the house.

If you go towards a group and they suddenly change their topic, better to leave them alone.

You do not tell anyone the name of a friend’s crush if there exists a chance that that person may tell the crush.

Manners maketh the man.

Being Argumentative

Use and abuse me.

Picking Scabs

Breaking Promises To Yourself

Show gratitude to God for all you have in life.

Chastised

If your friend/ colleague has given you his mobile to show a pic etc.just see that pic and return the phone, don't start browsing his entire album.

Facebook

When a woman or a man that I don't like comes close to me or touch me or talk to me or message , signal me etc .

You’re never too old to learn something new.

Tapping Fingers/Pens/Etc.

Picking Your Teeth In Public

Use thankyou as often as you can.

They make noise around you when you busy your self with internet. They want you to look at poeple or around yourself. Sometimes when you look at beautiful women , they send a Stinky street guy or 2 to come around you and disgust your appetite and make loud noises around you or threaten you. They make you leave the public and run or fistfight them and face the consequences. This can happen even in a relationship or at work.

Watching T.V Right After Work

To show up late and keep someone waiting. To not live up to what you are supposed to live up to . To break promise. To let down someone. To mislead and betray someone. To violate someone’s rights. To make someone uncomfortable with bad smells and bad body language moves. To deny someone opportunity to have , peace , privacy , work, friends , food , shelter medical services etc . To muffle someone’s voice. To discredit their honest and clean work . To give someone more work than what they are supposed to do . To corner someone.

Respect people regardless of their job.

Going To The Club

Drinking Coffee

Eating Cookies Every Damn Day

Being able to swallow pride and actually making an honest apology when you honestly offend someone or do something that affects them in a bad way instead of trying to find a way to put the blame back on them.

Forgetting Names Of People You Meet

Sleeping With Makeup

Learn how to grill well.

Spending On Credit Cards

In other words, any hyper vigilance towards them is dropped by you, then they are up to their shenanigans again, most likely planning a way to get a boost of supply from you, sometimes unexpectedly.And if you distance yourself, whether physically or emotionally, they must pull you back in. They will never leave you alone. You will see it in the haters and narcissist’s eyes, that haunted look of someone who never lived, someone who wanders the earth restlessly, wanting to be the best, but always failing because they don't put in the effort. They are mostly slavery masters and human dealers.

Yelling At Your BF/GF

Borrowing And Not Returning Items

Do not wink a lot while conversing.

Eating Fast Food

Don't stick your body to the body of others without asking permission or having a relationship with.

Its because of the self-identity, and life , property , money , title popularity, position, social status , family , house , car , business , girlfriend, husband, children, appliances, cash , jweils , powers , reputation, we have worked for ( spent body members energy , time and money on it for long ) and created for ourselves. It is the self-image that we have. For example, let’s just say, I identify myself as a good writer and someone comments on how bad I write, I would be hurt. But I must really be a good writer with reputation, recognition and good work so I can feel hurt. Otherwise it's not hurt . It's critics that embarrsing you . And you shouldn't developed hate or become angry and revengeful about it . Example of situations where someone hurt your feelings for some reason:

Being An Attention Hog

After writing an angry email, read it carefully. Then delete it.

Falling Asleep In Class

In office, when you go to your colleagues place/ bay for talking, do not pull the other colleagues chair for seating. If you do so, leave the chair for him as soon as he comes.

When a man sexually touch.

YouTube

But , Iam still aware. As soon as a car or bike or a dog or a thug comes close to me , I run away from them . If I was an aware I would have been hit by car long time ago or I would hurt someone and go to jail. But I avoid it. Though everyone tells me coward , but I call it taking precautions with bad poeple.And I report it too. I have survived many close car accident against me in Kitchener. Many times. Police know about it . But they think it's my fault because I smoke weed .

Devalued

Forgetting What You’ve Told Someone

An example is , Secret intelligent agencies spy on you. Thier teams who are Sick poeple want you to turn you into a sucide bomber or into kill your self play this game with you. The hater and control freak.l mafia agency don't stop the mind games and torure , unless they see you stopping to look at poeple or go close to poeple. And also see you growing beard and stink and go in deep thoughts , wonder. , make mistakes , don't pay attention to cars , etc . little mental game of cat and mouse. When you look at them , they look away . When you don't look at them , they stand up walk close to you and show you some sexiness of butt or cleavage , legs etc. When you put your head down , they make loud noises around you or call your name without looking at you. Or shout at something to make up your head again.

Masturbating

Don't talk to poeple rudely if you have no good reason.

Make ugly and disgusting noises close to me .

Aching

And most importantly , wars , human poverty ,human rights abuse , Racism , discrimination , lack of rule of law , democracy , freedom and justice are biggest reasons that can cause anger for someone. But after all anger is supposed to be controlled under any circumstances and should not lead to crimes unless beyond your power and out of no choice. Depending what makes you angry and whether you are right or wrong.

Don't get jealous of anyone.

Calling me masochist or labeling me and sticking different mental sicknesses on me . While I am not.

Losing Focus

Crushed

Overspending

Slouching While Walking

Provocations is important to know in law , self defense in criminal matters. It's usually someone who is behaving “provocatively” in the word , speaking , writing , photos , etc , school , business , competition , body language or action ways close to you or from far away.

Not Flossing

Abased

Littering (really, stop littering)

Wash your handa before eating.

Hold your heroes to a higher standard.

Speak politely amd softly.

Return a borrowed car with a full tank of gas.

Picking Your Nose

Porn Watching

You do not spread gossip/news unless it is trivial, but if it’s not about any of your friends, well…

Gambling

Saying “Ummm” And “Ahhh”

When your friend shows you a picture on their phone, don’t scroll/swipe to other photos.

Interpreting my conversation.

While coughing or sneezing, cover it with a kerchief.

Do not try to listen to two persons talk.

The only time we need to use the word “provoked” is in right and fair logical , self defense with enough evidence , explaining for some action logically and fairly , we took, ( hurt and damage emotionally , phiscally finicially ) and as the reason to justify those actions and be set free from wrong judgment and guilt.

Psychology, law and ethics

How do you fight the push and pull (manipulation) tactic if you want to win him?

You do not leave a friend on read, opened (Snapchat), or seen. However, not opening a text, Snap, DM, or other message is okay.

Hair Pulling

Don't grab people's belongings and goodies.

If someone ignore me when they are not supposed to.

Spying on you and Stealing your private life information and spreading it to people. Spreading rumours about . To Scare off someone. To tease , poke , touch and bug someone on and on . To make fun of someone's life , appearance and things they have. To beat someone. To insult someone. To frustrate someone , to turn people against someone. To put pressure on someone at work . To force someone to do something for you. To cut him / her off something they enjoy doing it.

Impersonating me.

Oppressed

Copying

It's clear poeple who look for your weak points of life , personality , are powerful , capable spies have everything to use against you to stop you from critic doing of those who you critique or embarrss in your speaking and writing. They lose business , followers , powers and fans whom they use and abuse. . They are harmful, without empathy, hate criticism, are envious, want to put you down to make them better and are very sick and disordered people. They have to win, be better than and make you look worse than they do for their ego’s which need constant feeding. Don’t stay in these relationships. It will hurt you in the long run.

Being a polite driver.